What to look for in a doctor

"I'm not receiving enough help from our doctor," is perhaps the most common complaint I hear from Alzheimer's caregivers. I certainly understand their concern. I ended up switching doctors' myself. It's my opinion that since there is no cure, some physicians become stagnant and just are not aggressive enough, not realizing there is two people in need of care - the patient and the caregiver.

You should know it's difficult switching to a new doctor. There's a feeling of security in staying with the same doctor for a lengthy period of time. Then there is a concern about hurting their feelings after building a doctor-patient relationship.

If you decide to make a switch, make sure your expectations can be reasonablely met by a new doctor. Caregiver's become overtired and worn down; thus you need to make this decision with careful thought when you are well rested.

Be aware changing physicians will be time consuming and you may incur additional cost such as copying and transferring medical files along with requiring new lab tests.

Your first question should be, "What type of doctor treat Alzheimer's patients?" Your primary care physician should be able to handle all your needs; however, should you need a specialist for other medical concerns, neurologist, geriatric psychiatrists and geriatricians all receive training in evaluation and treatment of memory disorders. You might wish to try a memory assessment clinic. Contact your local Alzheimer's Association chapter for a list of doctors, test and other helpful information.

My advice is to see if you can iron things out with your doctor first. Remember any type of change is difficult for an Alzheimer's patient. Ask for a moment alone with your physician to explain how you feel and what changes need to be made to best care for your patient. If your doctor is not willing to listen and consider your concerns, you have your answer.